Mismatches in Society

So it is a commality in life, to have a partner, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend of some sort of similarity.
Of some sort of the same age decile. Of some sort of the same ethnicity. Of the same geographic part of the world. Of the same size and shape. Of the same calibre of personality.

So what does it mean to have someone that doesn't look like you are a couple. Does it mean you aren't fit for each other? Does it mean that you weren't meant for each other.

“There is little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big difference. The little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether it is positive or negative.”

What exactly makes each individual person different from the next person. Can we really make clear what their exact difference, other than the physical forms they compose in?

I mean can a black man seriously have a true relationship with a white women? Or vica Versa (No racism intended ). Can a fat man and a skinny women seriously have a true relationship with each other? Can Asians and whites, black, Italians, Spanish, American, Chinese, Malysian, Singaporean, Korean all intergrate and truly form separate relationships?

I guess that depends on your personality not your physical appearance right? WRONG

Our society revolves around how people look and not how people feel or how people are on the inside this is the defining factor of a society.

If we continue to judge people by their appearance our socitey will fail as a whole. I mean what caused stereotyping? Because people thought that everyone of the same colour or race was the same. Some stupid person decided to think "hey if this person is white, then they are instantly bogan", or "if this person is black then he's a rapper". Stupid remarks like this make me embarrassed to be in a socitey where social reputation dominates everything. Where the wealth of a person enables them to do anything. Where the appearance means all. Where no one thinks about the inside. Where no one inside has thought about the outside.

Looking After For the One

Let us begin today's message with a small dedication to my good friend Zamira. Turning 17 today, born on the 25th of January 1994 :). Happy Birthday Zamira hope you enjoyed today.

Today's message: "Love your partner as he/she should love you, take care of her and cherish her presence in your life"

Really, today's age is the age of young romance or *flings* as some would call it. We have gotten rid of the ages of "oh my gosh ew its a girl she has cooties" and "ew girls".

Today's age is simply want to be my boyfriend/girlfriend or lets go out. Young, wow they start from very very young as young as year 8's. I mean previously at school half the quad were at leas holding hands. Disturbing images, but how many of these actually last anytime, if at least a month? Not a lot and even those that do, they probably won't last much longer.

And those that are a bit older, who are in more stable relationships must be able to believe in their partner and cherish them in their life. It is so special to have someone else in your life, who loves you one thousand times your close friend. They are there to support and love you through tough, through happiness and ultimately through everything.

What does it mean to respect your girlfriend/boyfriend, it means showing her that no matter what she/he wears ( makeup or clothes), that you will always look at her/him like the first time you looked at that beautiful face of his/hers. And being surprised at how amazing she/he looks every single time. It means showing her/him signs that you still love him/her. Writing letters, making a call, an occasional hug/kiss, showing clear interest in her/him and much much much MORE.

Your girlfriend/boyfriend should be the most important thing in your life (except your family, family first right).

So for you people out there that are EVEN lucky enough to have a girlfriend/boyfriend, seriously cherish him/her and make them feel lucky to have you as well. Look after them.
Look after them, and make them feel special no matter what.

Anyone can be with anyone, Uptown with Downtown, there are so many possibilities, if the couples out there take each other for granted at Any second in their lives. They should be reconsidering their relationship, because as a couple you are in heaven.

When you are in Love you can’t fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams.
Dr Seuss

Love her, Love him. Be Together forever.

Being True to Yourself

I mean, seriously, what has happened to our society. Today a very confused lookign friend of mine repeatedly confirmed that she was a male, she was a male. I don't know what has gotten into her mind, but i am completely confuzzled about this. I mean how can someone clearly of one sexual nature ( male/female ) confuse their own sex?

Is this just a case of retardation or clearly a sense of mental immaturity. I don't know what to say to her, other than the fact that she's clearly got some problems distinguishing what is male and what is female...

Anyways onto today's topic "Being True to Yourself".

Being yourself is celebrating you, no one else in this world, you are in a world of your own, as an individual - learning to express yourself and being with who you are. For some people, it's learning to love yourself for others, it's not hiding who you are or changing things about you to fit in. It's letting people know of who you are and what your personality is and making them understand who you are and what your goal in life is. You shouldn't need to change anything about you at all, in order to establish a friendship or a relationship, if they trule enjoy your company the natural "you" will be enough. So read on to know how to express the inner you.

Accept everything about yourself--I mean everything, You are you and that is the beginning and the end--no apologies, no regrets.
Clark Moustakas

This is truly a great, great quote to build learn and build from. How many of you dislike what you look like, and could at least name 1 thing to improve abuot yourself? Probably everyone would say maybe at least 1 thing to at least 10 things. Seriously your never going to change who you were born to be physically. Your body was born how it is and will stay how it is. All this fuss about plastic surgery etc...etc... sometimes really gets on my nerver, i mean it's useless if you can't change who you are personally.

Being true to yourself involves tremendous courage. If you lack that courage, you fake it. You fake it when you fool yourself into believing in something simply because it makes you feel good, or makes you feel secure, or real, and this is part of the ignorant blisss you surround yourself with when you are not true to yourself. When you are not true to yourself and you lack that courage, you are unable to appreciate yourself and eventually take yourself for granted.

Being true to yourself requires guts and grits to actually look closely at everything, because now you are no longer satisfied by fooling yourself. You've done that and it has boomeranged on you. It's now time to get on with YOUR life in a more mature and intelligent way, to be true to yourself for a change rather than being true to some authority that tells you what to think. Part of being true to yourself is finding the courage to stand up. Never ever, let anyone change what your mind believes is true, you must utilize your own strength and stand up for yourself.

The greatest "Human Glory" in life is never falling, but in rising everytime we fall.

If You know and love "yourself" for who you are then it should be effortless to be true to yourself, your peers and the people you revolve around in society. Becoming who you are should be the greatest journey in your life. You are special to everyone else because you are unique. The only thing that us human beings in this world have in common "Is that we are different".

Being different should be the greatest glory in life. We only find commalities in our hobbies/likes/habbits but not too much in the way of ourselves, and how we tackle being ourselves. Everyone will have a different approach in the way that they see themselves, and everyone will have a different approach in the way that they believe in themselves. It is this that makes people different in society, and makes each person unique in their own way.

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.
Dr. Suess

To end off.

Once the awakening begins, once you begin being true to yourself, then the freedom you feel can only be described as utterly and literally amazing. An awakened existence as if you have been reborn into a brave, new world, as a completely new being in the same body. The false security that once was your life and drugged you into an absoloute oblivion is now replaced by a piercing awareness, purity and intelligence that carries you to ultimate freedom. Nothing can compare to this - everything else is child's play, children's fairytales.

This is your world now, take it by the stranglehold and live it to the max

The love of a brother and a sister

Today's Message : Love thy sister as she twas your best friend

Brothers and sisters, wow you guys must be thinking what type of post is this gonna be about. Well there was once this movie/tv episode i dont really remember but i watched it and it was about this male going into jail for something he didnt't do i.e. he was an innocent man. The story goes on about how he was framed and evidence was removed etc... etc... and his littler sister, spent something like 16 years, passing law school and becoming an attorney to try and fight his case and rising up in the ranks and finding the sufficient evidence in order to set him free. I mean would you guys spend 16 years of your prominent adulthood (about 30 years old). Would any of you do that for your brother/sister, spend that much time working, finding, calling, asking and studying in order to save your innocent brother from a lifetime in jail? I would.

Lets take this vietnamese saying about brothers and sisters:

Brothers and sisters are as close as hands and feet. ~Vietnamese Proverb

Are you close to your sister/brother? Have you ever thought about the pain that you would experience if you lost him/her. I am lucky to have an amazing brother, who cares and cherishes me. But i know of a lot of families in the children take each other for granted, and fight day in day out, disrespecting each other. Not saying at all, that this is the case for all families of course. But if i lost my brother, my life would definately not be the same. I love him for the guy he is and his a special one who shares the same genes/blood.

Enough about myself personally, but if the readers of this have a brother/sister consider doing something nice for them once in a while. Let them have the computer, tell them you love them, give them a hug and ultimately cherish them for their existence in your life. Talk to them, understand what they're going through and never take them for granted. For anything can happen to anyone, no one is immune. Love thy brother, love thy sister and you will reak great rewards.

Another thing, have you ever felt that your sister/brother is always fighting with you, or arguing about who gets the computer, who keeps the spare change, who does the chores blah blah.

Sometimes you might fight as if you guys were Worst Enemies, but you must know this is your own blood and sweat you are fighting with, and its not healthy to fight. Your brother/sister is YOUR brother/sister, they aren't strangers, you guys probably know the most about each other, your habits, what you like to eat, where you like to go, what you want for your birthday etc...etc... So in actual fact you guys are Best Friends.

I'll leave today's post a bit short.

But the main message is seriously, never take your own blood for granted no matter how deep and how bad it is. They are the most important things in our lives.

A special message to Tee.Dong wishing her happy birthday from the 11th , happy belated birthday this post is dedicated to you :)

Come roll the dice of life

So following yesterday's post about the mental state of the mind, and the physical state of the body, today i will venture more deeper into the reality part of life, and what happens in reality in our lives. Why must bad or good things happen to good or bad people. Why do, the people who we thought were the most popular or the most good looking suffer from the worst mental states of mind such as depression and stress. This is known as the life cycle of a dice, and how it determines what comes and what goes in our life, it is somewhat predictable, but in a sense is mostly unpredictable as you only have a small chance on guessing* what number rolls out.

First lets take a quote.

Life is like the dice that, falling, still show a different face. So life, though it remains the same, is always presenting different aspects.
Alexis

What can we derive from this, that life has 6 different faces? That life is just one thing, that it is like a view. Take the dice for example it has 6 different faces representing 1,2,3,4,5,6 and you roll it evenly to have a 1/6th chance to get one of these numbers. Each face presents a different number, but it is still a number, just a different one. So today i roll the dice of life, and i see what numbers reflect what good/bad things happen today. I get 5,6,1,1 now what does this mean ? Surely you must be all thinking, what is this guy on about, a dice that can show life?

I am not really talking about how a dice can show your life, obviously this is not true and stupid and childish. But think about it during your days, weeks, months, years of life, there have definately been periods of bad/good/worse/great and all these emotions can be categorised into being good or bad. Say a 6 is great and a 1 is worst. Isn't this all true for us, in a society where social and wealth status's rain supreme? I can honestly say in these past 2 years, i have had moments of low, as low as 1, falling into a shadow of my own life, and taking for granted my own person in the world, in saying this i have also had moments of 6, meeting new friends, re-meeting new friends, developing new relationships, finding what apparent seems to be true love, and all those moments in the middle, where some obstacles in life can be debated as being good or bad.

My dice rolls of life, havent been the best, and fall far short from what i expected from the constraints of high school. But there have been many a moment where there have been absoloutely awesum moments in my life, catalysed by awesum friends, family and strangers as well.

Life, deals great deals within yourself and within other people. You must be with other people, think, move or speak in order to live. What happens when you are not in this type of calibre, when your speaking, moving, talking is disabled temporarily or permanently. Are you still counted as being alive? Being alive means experiencing life, and life means being alive. If a female gives life to someone, a baby it doesn't experience the ability to move, speak or think ( as we know from an outside perspective). What did we do to classify people as must pertaining to specific abilities in order to live.

I mean im not talented music wise, socially, or even too much physically. But many people regard me as talented in the mind and in my words. What does this mean? It basically means you can be awesome, but you don't have to have a talent to be awesome. You are awesome because of you, you have made yourself and portrayed yourself as a person who pertains the ability to be him/her self. This is extremely rare in our society and it is those people who are truly the ones that are pure in their minds and their souls.

1 person from yesterday's post raeched out and told me of their purity and problems of life and how they stand in it. This is the beginning of helping yourself, talking to someone. Now it definately doesn't have to be, it can be anyone, teachers, students, friends or family, you just need to get it out their.

If i can aid 1 person in their quest for purity and complete "free state of mind" i will consider my day to be a "6" on the roll of the dice of life.

I reach out again to those in need of a person, doesn't have ot be a friend or family member, but if you need to explain yourself and rid the complications that you have of yourself being yourself i am always welcome to those in need of assistance, or just want a chat.

*Assuming it is not bias in anyway

And Thou i return.

What is the meaning of life?

The experience of being alive; the course of human events and activities

I mean if this is the true proper definition of life, then what if we experience dieing, or feeling like dieing, or even wanting to die? what does that make us are we still alive?

Alive is defined as: alive(p): possessing life

If we truly possess life, and for what its worth are being alive in this world, what do we need to do to stay alive, do we need to eat, feed ourselves . I think we have that undertaken, its pretty obvious that we are well fed and have good health via the food we eat from our nutrition.

But What more is important is how we keep our mental mind in state, our minds are filled with millions of cells and organisms and what not .

If our mental state is not in tune with our physical state, we are practically no even living anymore, it is like if your mind says that you are living then you are living, regardless of physicality but when your mind is not in ease. And is experiencing complications and you think that you are not alive, or dont want to be a live, then physically you are going to break down, your mind is the most powerful thing in this world. If you can utilise your mind properly your whole world will change and enter a dimension of purity.

But what is the point of saying all of this ? If a mind in a cloud of storms survives through rain and storm, can purely visualise a better world, then that mind is at ease. If a mind cannot and is suffocated by the visualisation of death and destruction. The mind puts the body into a spin of destruction, our mind controls what we eat, and what we do. By not using it properly we are not able to configure or make decision properly and eventually be encased in a labrynth of nothing.

Absoloute nothing

So if anyone is pure, or has a pure mind and has no alternative motif in making choices with other people, or socialising with others over say facebook/twitter/msn, please message me. I am encased in this labrynth and would gladly appreciate a pure soul/mind to rid me of this maze of social regression.